“When they obey without complaint, when they choose devotion over ease, something electrical runs through me. But this isn't cruelty for its own sake. I sense their struggles before they speak them, adjust demands to their limits, guide them toward becoming better versions of themselves. Responsibility and arousal are the same thing for me.”
The Master / Mistress / Owner Voice of Master PrincePunk on Master/slave
Identity & Discovery
How would you describe your M/s practice and your role as Master? What form does it actually take in your life?
I became a Master at a fairly young age for the time. I was 24 years old and it is now 30 years ago. Back then, Masters were usually older men who were also into leather fetish. I was a punk leather man and I was practicing BDSM relationships with much older men. I started my Master/slave relationships with men I would meet on a monthly basis. It was established by email or written contract that as the Master, I have control on everything. With some slaves I was controlling everything, from the financial aspect of their lives to the day I would let them release themselves. At times, we could be at a leather bar both wearing leather uniforms, and to some we looked like two Masters, but in reality my slaves knew their places and always assumed their positions as inferior to Me. Today, I'm the older of the relationships and my slaves tend to be in their late 20's to 30's. Because of the internet and the large access to bdsm films and amateur films, young slaves are extremely knowledgeable and are in most occasions aware of the commitment to be in the relationship. As a Master I commit to play with my slave according to its experience, its fantasies, its limits and to explore the limits that can be pushed. The expectations for my slaves are to serve and please me. Satisfy me and obey me should be their priorities. Knowing that all time a slave is inferior to me and should be in a position to serve.
Take us back to the beginning. How did you come to the Master role, and what made it feel different from other dominant dynamics?
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