✦ Preliminary edition
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What You Will Understand
- ▸The fister's primary skill is not technique—it is reading. Knowing what your bottom is experiencing, what they can accept, what they need from you in each moment
- ▸Your hand inside another person is both utterly vulnerable and completely powerful. You have the capacity to produce profound pleasure or harm, and your bottom has ceded all control to you
- ▸Technique matters, but it is technique as communication. Every movement is information you are sending to your bottom's body and psyche—information about care, attunement, and presence
- ▸The fister's role is to orchestrate. To manage lubrication, pressure, depth, and pace. To hold space. To be completely present and attuned while your bottom surrenders completely to you
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